Saturday, April 21, 2018

Light a fire in your marriage

So many women say they just aren’t in the mood. They are exhausted from cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the children. That is true. But the bigger truth is that your husband and you simply aren’t connecting. How many times a day do you touch each other? Does he kiss you at the end of the day? When was the last time you complimented him and when was the last time he told you you are beautiful. I guarantee and attentive hubby is getting laid no matter how tired his wife is.
So here are some tips for you guys out there.

The best foreplay is your mouth. Women are mentally stimulated. What you say will turn her on or off. A little thing like ‘Hey I am inviting my mother to stay her for a few days,’ will definitely kill the mood. Keep comments like that reserved for Sunday morning in church. Tell your wife she looks hot. That her rear end gets you all excited. That she is a great mom. That you love her cooking. That you thought about her all day.

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